I know I am too jealous to ever have a threesome in real life, but is there a way to bring up maybe a “simulated” fantasy/role-play scenario with her, maybe including some toys and dirty talk? I would want my partner to know that it’s not something I have any intention of wanting for real, but the fantasy of it turns me on and could be fun and hot. Something about her being the object of desire in that way really turns me on. I know about a few things my partner has done in the past, including a threesome with two men-and while if for some reason kind of bothered me in the beginning, I’ve begun to think about it in a sexual way a bit and it fuels some fantasies that I have had. My partner and I have been together for about six years now, and although the sex we have is great, we’ve never really discussed what things we might want to explore or try. Hopefully, specificity is on our horizon. Unless there were some sort of outdoor gloryhole configuration being used, at this point, I think it’d be difficult to isolate and say definitively, “You contracted COVID from oral sex,” over, “You contracted COVID from sitting next to that person,” which you’d certainly need to do in order to perform or receive oral sex. But isolating such transmission is likely to be difficult anyway for a virus that seems to spread easily among people in close proximity who aren’t engaged in sex. There is still so much that we don’t know. (The results of a third study have yet to publish.) Though a conclusion of the second study I cited is “the lower female genital tract may not be a transmission route for SARS-CoV-2,” it’s far from definitive and far too early to really say much about the virus for sure. Another study of 35 women found no presence of SARS-CoV-2 in the lower vaginal tract. This study out of China says no, but it only tested 10 women.
SARS-CoV-2 is present in saliva, but there’s limited data on whether it is detectable in vaginal fluid. I will save my rant on why it’s weird to talk about “active” and “passive” partners in oral sex for another time, but if I understand your question correctly, the answer is: It’s unclear. Take it with a grain of salt, as you should anything you read on Reddit, though funnily enough, Reddit is about the most bountiful source of anecdotal cumsicle information.
I read a Reddit horror story of someone who ate two weeks’ worth of frozen cum and had intense diarrhea as a result. Since you have already taken STDs out of the equation, thus eliminating the chance of spreading a localized infection to another part of your body, the main thing to be concerned about is whether you have a semen allergy-it is, in fact, possible to be allergic to your own semen, and this may present as redness, swelling, and hives. So let’s ponder the risks of semen eating more generally. Even though this involves adding a preservative and is generally a far more sterile process than the average puttering around of the kitchen, we can assume that what comes out of the freezer is more or less what comes out of the dick. Through the cryopreservation process, sperm that is frozen and stored can be thawed at a later date for fertilization.
While those who frequent the more fetishy fringes of tube sites have likely heard of this practice, for obvious reasons, there isn’t much data available to help us determine the risks involved in becoming your own Mister Softee machine.